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Post by Henry's Forest on Jan 15, 2019 19:45:07 GMT
Since mental health is something many Thomas fans struggle with, i figure this is a thread that NEEDS to exist. If you are feeling depressed or want to help someone who is feeling depressed, this is the place to go. (Signature related, as i my friend is in REALLY bad place right now)
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Post by Galloping Sausage on Feb 10, 2024 20:38:16 GMT
My grandfather (I call him papa) passed away in his sleep after my family woke up a few days at the age of 91.
How did this happened? Well, it was indirectly thanks to my mom when she was drunk one night before she move out, and my mom was arguing with my grandparents that she was treated as the bad one. After she moved, I thought things would be better, but no. Sometime after, my grandfather was feeling dizzy and thought he had the flu. But then he got worse and last night, he was bleeding from his behind. I couldn't sleep last night, and when I checked on him, his skin was cold and I had to call 911. It was the worst day, not helping that it happened on my one brother's birthday.
I never had the proper chance to say goodbye, and I feel upset that it all happened because of my mom was drunk last week and caused my grandfather to start feeling icky. It's too much stress, and now I don't know what else to do.
I feel upset at everything what's going on, my mom came back with us back during the holidays and she never learned to stop drinking since. I didn't even said goodbye to papa before he passed away. The last thing I did was helping him up in bed.
If you want to drop by to give grievance, please message me. My family is shaken.
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Post by Nicholas on Feb 10, 2024 23:00:53 GMT
My grandfather (I call him papa) passed away in his sleep after my family woke up a few days at the age of 91. How did this happened? Well, it was indirectly thanks to my mom when she was drunk one night before she move out, and my mom was arguing with my grandparents that she was treated as the bad one. After she moved, I thought things would be better, but no. Sometime after, my grandfather was feeling dizzy and thought he had the flu. But then he got worse and last night, he was bleeding from his behind. I couldn't sleep last night, and when I checked on him, his skin was cold and I had to call 911. It was the worst day, not helping that it happened on my one brother's birthday. I never had the proper chance to say goodbye, and I feel upset that it all happened because of my mom was drunk last week and caused my grandfather to start feeling icky. It's too much stress, and now I don't know what else to do. I feel upset at everything what's going on, my mom came back with us back during the holidays and she never learned to stop drinking since. I didn't even said goodbye to papa before he passed away. The last thing I did was helping him up in bed. If you want to drop by to give grievance, please message me. My family is shaken. You have my condolences regarding the death of your grandfather, Galloping Sausage. You're quite justified to be feeling a mix of emotions as a result. While you may not have had the closure of saying goodbye, I'm sure, particularly with the help that it sounds like you were giving him, that your papa knew you were there for him and that you cared about him greatly. I would encourage you to take the time you need to process his death and give him a good send-off. As difficult a conversation it is to have, if you feel that your mother's (what you seem to be suggesting is) alcohol problems is at the point where it warrants it, it may be worth, when you feel the time is right, looking into how you can support her and help her onto a path of admitting she is dependent on alcohol and needs help dealing with it. I cannot admit to being an expert on how to go about this, but I would recommend you and perhaps your family researching how you can approach her possible alcohol use disorder and what options of help there may be available for her locally. My thoughts and support are with you, Galloping Sausage.
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